When Healing Doesn’t Look Like Healing: What Your Nervous System Needs You to Know
You’ve done the therapy. The breathwork. The journaling. The inner child work. The meditation apps and the self-help books and the workshops. And you still hurt. If that’s you, I want to say something important: You are not failing at healing. The model is failing you. As a somatic therapist working with clients in Dublin, […]
Holding Space: Why Being Witnessed Is the Healing We’ve Been Missing
“I don’t know why this happened to you. But I can hold this for you.” Let that sentence land for a moment. If you’ve found your way to this article, chances are you’re carrying something. Something heavy. Something you’ve tried to understand, tried to explain, tried to make sense of. And maybe — after all […]
Understanding Your Nervous System States: A Complete Guide to Polyvagal Theory and Self-Regulation
Have you ever wondered why you snap at the people you love most? Why your mind goes completely blank in important meetings? Or why some days you feel unstoppable, while others you can barely drag yourself out of bed? The answer isn’t willpower. It isn’t a character flaw. And it certainly isn’t something wrong with […]
The Hidden Cost of Living for Others: How Societal Expectations Dysregulate Your Nervous System
Understanding the somatic experience of performance and the path to authentic living Have you ever noticed a particular tension that settles into your shoulders when you’re about to do something you “should” do rather than something you want to do? Or the way your breath becomes shallow when you’re performing a version of yourself that […]
The Intelligence of Your Shutdown Response: Why Freezing Isn’t Weakness—It’s Survival
Understanding the Freeze Response as Sophisticated Survival I want to share a story from my practice that I think about often. A client—I’ll call her Sarah—came to me deeply frustrated with herself. She kept saying: “I don’t understand why I freeze up. I know I should speak up for myself. I know I should say […]
Co-Regulation: The Healing Power of Safe Relationships for Your Nervous System
Introduction: You Cannot Heal Alone There’s a revolutionary understanding emerging in holistic healing: we aren’t meant to regulate our nervous systems in isolation. The idea that we should “self-soothe” or “calm ourselves down” through sheer willpower misses something fundamental about human biology – we’re wired for co-regulation. As a holistic therapist working with clients across […]
Somatic Therapy: Unlocking the Power of the Nervous System
When it comes to understanding the intricate connection between our body and our emotional well-being, somatic therapy is the frontier. At the heart of this groundbreaking therapeutic approach lies the Polyvagal Theory—a concept that is reshaping our comprehension of self-regulation, emotional states, and trauma recovery. In this article, we’ll delve deep into the Polyvagal Theory, […]
