Body Dialogue Meditation: Why Talking to Your Pain Actually Works
The idea of having a conversation with your pain might sound unusual, even absurd. Yet this revolutionary approach, known as body dialogue meditation, is transforming how people relate to chronic physical discomfort and finding remarkable success where traditional pain management has fallen short. If you’ve been battling chronic pain—whether it’s persistent back pain, fibromyalgia, tension […]
Understanding People-Pleasing: The Hidden Psychology Behind Approval Addiction
By Abi Beri, Integrative Holistic Therapist What Is People-Pleasing Really? People-pleasing goes far beyond being considerate or helpful. It’s a compulsive behavioral pattern where your sense of safety and self-worth becomes entirely dependent on others’ approval. Unlike healthy accommodation, people-pleasing involves systematically abandoning your authentic needs, desires, and boundaries to avoid conflict or potential rejection. […]
Why You Can’t Say No Even When You Want To: Healing the Fawn Response and People-Pleasing Patterns
Picture this scenario: Someone asks you for a favor. Inside, every fiber of your being screams “NO!” – you’re overwhelmed, stretched thin, and desperately need time for yourself. But somehow, what comes out is “Of course! I’d be happy to help!” Sound familiar? If you’ve ever wondered why the word “no” feels absolutely impossible to […]
Why You Freeze When Someone Raises Their Voice: Understanding and Healing the Freeze Trauma Response
Have you ever had someone raise their voice at you and suddenly found yourself completely unable to speak, think, or move? That moment when your mind goes blank, your throat closes up, and you feel frozen in place while your inner world is in complete chaos? If this experience feels familiar, you’ve encountered what trauma […]
Why You Can’t Stop Checking Your Phone: The Hidden Nervous System Addiction
Do you find yourself reaching for your phone without even thinking? That familiar pull toward your device when you’re trying to focus, relax, or simply be present? If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t seem to put your phone down despite knowing you should, you’re not alone – and more importantly, it’s not about lacking […]
Understanding Your Energy Body: A Somatic Approach to Feeling Your Aura
Have you ever walked into a room and immediately felt the “vibe”? Or sensed someone’s presence before seeing them? You’ve been experiencing your energy body – and it’s far more tangible than you might think. What is Your Energy Body? Your energy body is the subtle field of life force energy that surrounds and interpenetrates […]
Healing Grief and Loss Through Somatic Approaches: A Compassionate Guide to Processing Life’s Most Difficult Transitions
Grief is perhaps the most universal human experience, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood and inadequately supported aspects of our lives. Whether you’re navigating the death of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, job loss, health challenges, or any of life’s inevitable transitions, grief touches us all. As a holistic […]
The Revolutionary Connection Between Self-Compassion Meditation and Somatic Healing: A Complete Guide to Transforming Self-Criticism Into Self-Love
In our increasingly demanding world, the way we speak to ourselves has become more critical than ever. If you’ve ever caught yourself in a spiral of self-criticism, felt overwhelmed by perfectionism, or struggled with that nagging inner voice that tells you you’re not enough, you’re certainly not alone. As a holistic therapist and family constellations […]
Calming Your Overwhelmed Nervous System: A Somatic Approach to Finding Peace
“Your nervous system isn’t broken—it’s just stuck in an old pattern that no longer serves you.” Your heart races for no apparent reason. Your mind won’t stop spinning. You feel simultaneously wired and exhausted, like you’re running on empty but can’t seem to slow down. Your body feels like it’s constantly braced for impact, even […]
When Everything Feels Too Much: A Somatic Healing Guide for Highly Sensitive People
“Your sensitivity isn’t too much—the world that feels overwhelming is too much.” Do you ever feel like you’re living with all your nerve endings exposed? Like you’re absorbing every emotion in the room, every harsh sound cuts through you, and every bright light feels like an assault on your system? If you’re reading this, you […]
