The Fawn Response: When Your Survival Strategy Was to Please
Let me ask you something. When you walk into a room, what is the first thing you do? If you are anything like the person this piece is for, you scan. Instantly, automatically, without thinking about it. Who is there. What mood they are in. Whether there is tension. What might be needed. What might […]
Somatic Healing Meditation: A Full Body Vagus Nerve Journey
Why the nerve you’ve never heard of is the key to healing — and how to follow its path through your body By Abi Beri | Integrative Somatic Therapist [Estimated reading time: 10 minutes] There’s a nerve in your body that runs from your brainstem all the way down to your gut. It passes through […]
ADHD Burnout & Your Nervous System: Why You’re So Exhausted
And Why Nothing Has Worked By Abi Beri | Nervous System Specialist | Dublin, Naas & Newbridge [Reading time: 12 minutes] You are exhausted. Not normal tired — bone-deep, cannot-recover, everything-is-too-much exhausted. Sleep does not fix it. Weekends do not fix it. The apps and planners and routines have not fixed it. If you have […]
When Love Feels Like Danger: Understanding and Healing Relational Trauma
By Abi Beri — Nervous System & Trauma Specialist | BlissfulEvolution.com | SomaticTherapyIreland.com There’s a particular kind of loneliness that doesn’t come from being alone. It comes from being in a relationship — or wanting one — while something inside you braces, pulls back, or waits for the floor to give way. Maybe you’ve noticed […]
Why You Can’t Let Anyone In: Healing the Guarded Heart
Safe and closed is not the same as safe and alive. By Abi Beri | Dublin, Naas & Newbridge [Reading time: 10 minutes] You might not call it a closed heart. You might call it being independent. Self-sufficient. Not needing anyone too much. You might call it being careful, or having high standards, or protecting […]
Why You Cannot Think Your Way Out of Trauma: The Science of Somatic Healing
Your body has its own timeline. And it does not care about your insights. By Abi Beri | Integrative Somatic Therapist [Reading time: 12 minutes] You have read the books. You have done the journaling. You have been in therapy — good therapy, even — and you understand your patterns. You can trace them back […]
Understanding Your Nervous System States: A Complete Guide to Polyvagal Theory and Self-Regulation
Have you ever wondered why you snap at the people you love most? Why your mind goes completely blank in important meetings? Or why some days you feel unstoppable, while others you can barely drag yourself out of bed? The answer isn’t willpower. It isn’t a character flaw. And it certainly isn’t something wrong with […]
The Hidden Cost of Living for Others: How Societal Expectations Dysregulate Your Nervous System
Understanding the somatic experience of performance and the path to authentic living Have you ever noticed a particular tension that settles into your shoulders when you’re about to do something you “should” do rather than something you want to do? Or the way your breath becomes shallow when you’re performing a version of yourself that […]
Why You Feel Anxious (Even When Everything’s ‘Fine’): Understanding Your Emotions & Nervous System
You wake up at 3am with your heart racing. Your chest feels tight. Your mind is spinning with worries about work, relationships, money, health—everything and nothing all at once. But here’s the thing: logically, everything is fine. Nothing catastrophic happened. No major crisis occurred. And yet, your body is screaming danger. You’ve probably tried the […]
If Your Body Could Speak: Listening to the Wisdom Within Through Somatic Healing
What if your body has been trying to tell you something—in a language you’ve never quite learned to speak? We live in a world that teaches us to analyze our bodies clinically: “My shoulder is tight. My back hurts. My stomach feels off.” But what if your body doesn’t speak in medical terms? What if, […]
